A Different Kind Of Daily Meditation
Daily meditation may be useful,
but do you have the inclination or time? Personally, I have a
back problem which often makes sitting too uncomfortable (and
laying down while meditating puts me to sleep). Also, for some
people even thirty minutes of practice can be difficult to fit
into every day.
Fortunately there are many
forms of meditation, and not all require sitting still for long
stretches. In fact, some of the most fruitful meditative practices
may be those that take place during your normal daily activities.
Lets look at an example of one.
Daily "Observer"
Meditation
You may have practiced becoming
aware of your thoughts just long enough to dismiss them. This
is common in many "regular" meditative techniques.
However, being an observer to your own mind can be more than
just a way to catch and get rid of thoughts. It can be a way
to learn about what is going on just below the surface, to see
how our thoughts mislead us. Try the following "observer"
meditation.
Start by watching for any negative
states as you go through your day. Perhaps you suddenly feel
angry or irritated. You may or may not have a "reason."
Maybe you notice that you resent a certain person, or feel that
something is "unfair." Whenever you feel a negative
state of any sort arising, take several deep breaths through
your nose.
At the same time, take a mental
step back to watch the drama going on in your mind. Negative
states are normally produced by certain thoughts, and your goal
is to become aware of them, and to note that you are free to
believe them or not, and even to replace them with better thoughts.
A few deep breaths and the purposeful choice to take on the role
of an observer makes it possible to see what's there, often just
below consciousness.
If you watch carefully, it
will become clear that although they seem to be "you,"
these thoughts are in fact merely "visitors" or "impostors."
They are not the "voice of reason." They are not your
own internal voice nor trusted advisors. In fact, thoughts which
lead to negative states are not useful or beneficial, though
they will "tell" you that you need to listen to their
advice, and try to perpetuate themselves. When you see this,
they begin to fade away, or to simply ramble on in the background,
purposefully ignored.
Don't be confused by the words
here. Though we talk about "impostors" or thoughts
which "tell" you they are you, this is just a metaphorical
way to understand a very real phenomenon. You can use other words
to describe it. Some people might describe it as their thoughts
"pushing" them, for example. Just watch closely and
you'll see the process.
Follow your short period
of observation by another deep breath or two and a release of
tension from your body. If you still feel the negativity, start
watching those thoughts again. See that they are not "yours"
any more than a spot of mud on your shoe is. Choose to see beyond
any thoughts that are coughed up from the mechanical processes
of an unenlightened unconscious mind.
You don't need to set aside
time for this, nor do you need to stop what you are doing. This
is meant to provide insight into your thinking patterns while
you are actually going about your normal routines. Repeat this
daily meditation as often as you need to. You will probably find
that with time this makes you less influenced by thoughts that
are not useful.
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